4th Sunday Ordinary A - The Origin of Happiness

Two songs that I really like which immediately perks up the room are:

(1)  Pharrell William (Happy): Clap along if you feel like a room without a roof/ Because I'm happy.  /Clap along if you feel like happiness is the truth/ Because I'm happy

(2) Bobby Mcferrin (Don’t worry, be happy): In every life we have some trouble/ When you worry you make it double/ Don't worry, be happy

Why are these songs famous? I think it’s hardwired within us; everyone wants to be happy.

It was reported that a newspaper in England once asked this question to its readers: “Who are the happiest people on the earth?” The four-prize winning answers were: (1) A little child building sand castles, (2) A craftsman/artist whistling over a job well done, (3) A mother bathing her baby after a busy day and (4) a doctor who has finished a difficult and dangerous operation that saved a human life. The editors of the newspaper were surprised to find virtually no one submitted kings, emperors, millionaires or others of wealth and rank as the happiest people on earth. What is the secret to being happy?

In today’s gospel Jesus talks about beatitudes - macarius in Greek or beatus in Latin which literally means “happy” or “blessed.” It’s used in the same way we wish others well like in Happy Chinese New year (means happiness and prosperity), Happy birthday, Happy Valentine’s, or Happy trip. And whenever we do this, we brighten up faces as we remind them of the lighter side of life and they feel happy.

Our God wills us to be happy. It is interesting to note that the first miracle of Jesus happened in a wedding party at Cana where everybody was enjoying the occasion, the wine and the food. He chooses such kind of occasion of joy to make His first miracle in order to show that He was a happy person who could laugh and enjoy Himself. He wanted to show too that each of us has a right to happiness. But please don’t use this as an excuse to get drunk.

Happiness is not wrong or a sin since joy is one of the twelve fruits of the Holy Spirit. A happy person does not fall into sin very easily. Satan stays away from happy and joyful people and they are too hard to tempt.

 

But now let’s talk about Jesus’ formula for being happy –the beatitudes. The beatitudes respond to the natural desire for happiness that God has placed in every heart. They teach us the final end to which God calls us, -  the coming of God’s kingdom (Matt 4:17), the vision of God (Matt 5:8; 1Jn 2:1), entering into the joy of the Lord (Matt 25:21-23) and into His rest (Heb 4:7-11).

Vima Dasan in his book His Word Lives writes that the Beatitudes are golden rules for happiness. It is because the blessed may be poor in riches but they don’t mind it because they trust in a caring God and so they are happy. The blessed may happen to be materially rich but because they are poor in spirit the result is that God becomes so dear to them that wealth means nothing to them and therefore they are happy.

They say that: “The poorest person on earth is not the one without money, but is the one without Jesus.”

People who are poor in spirit are those who trust God instead of being greedy; those who are humble instead of being proud; those who forgive instead of taking revenge; those who are just instead of being unfair; those who are merciful instead of being judgmental; those who are pure of hearts instead of giving in to the flesh and those who are take part in advocacies instead of being lazy. The beatitudes should be our attitudes if we want to be called blessed by God. Only when we put them into practice can we experience and find true happiness.

Pedro Pablo Sacristan has this children story entitled: “The origin of happiness.” (click on picture if you want to hear the audio book)

There was once a boy who hardly had any toys or money. Nevertheless, he was a very happy little boy. He said that what made him happy was doing things for others, and that doing so gave him a nice feeling inside which he could not explain. However, no one really believed him; they thought he was crazy.  He spent all day helping others, bringing food or clothes to those in the street, and looking after abandoned animals. Very seldom did he ever do anything for himself.

One day, he met a famous doctor who thought the boy's case was so peculiar that he decided to investigate him. So, with a complex system of cameras and tubes, the doctor managed to record what was happening inside the boy. What he discovered was surprising.

Each time the boy did something good, a thousand tiny angels gathered around the boy's heart and started tickling it.  That explained the boy's happiness, but the doctor continued studying until he discovered that we all have our own thousand angels inside us. Unfortunately, he found that, for those who do few good things, their angels spend most of their time wandering about, bored.

And so it was that the secret to happiness was discovered. Thanks to that little boy we now know exactly what we have to do to feel our hearts being tickled. Now we know the origin of happiness. But that’s for the children.

But for us Christians, it was Jesus who on top of that hill told the story of the origin of happiness and we call this story in today’s Gospel: The Beatitudes.

Reference:

Beitez, J. (2011) Justmehomely’s Blog. Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time (A).

https://justmehomely.wordpress.com/2011/11/20/fourth-sunday-in-ordinary-time-a/

Sacristan, P. Bedtime Stories. The origin of happiness.

https://freestoriesforkids.com/children/stories-and-tales/origin-happiness

https://freestoriesforkids.com/audiostories/american-english/origin-happiness-audio-story-kids-music-and-sound-effects

3rd Sunday Ordinary A – The Streetlight Effect

The Streetlight Effect – The key is in the dark but the search is where the light is. 

  I’m sure all of you have heard this popular story:

“A policeman sees a drunk man searching for something under a streetlight and asks what the drunk has lost. He says he lost his keys and they both look under the streetlight together. After a few minutes the policeman asks if he is sure he lost them here, and the drunk replies, no, and that he lost them in the park. The policeman asks why he is searching here, and the drunk replies, "this is where the light is."

This is called the “streetlight effect” -  this term was coined by David Freedman in 2010 book “Wrong.”  (However the story and concept has been used by social scientists way back in 1964 like Abraham Kaplan who referred to this as the “principle of the drunkard’s search.”)  The streetlight effect  simply points out to us that people tend to look and search for something where it is easiest. In short it is an observational bias.

But in today’s gospel there is a turnaround (Mt. 3:12-23).  There is this prophecy of Isaiah which was fulfilled: “Land of Zebulun! Land of Naphtali! Way of the sea on the far side of Jordan, Galilee of the nations! The people that lived in darkness has seen a great light; on those who dwell in the land and shadow of death a light has dawned.”  And by now after all those Christmas season celebrations we know and we believe that Isaiah refers to the true Light of the World, none other than Jesus Christ. And that passage is followed by: From that moment Jesus began his preaching with the message, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is close at hand.” Simply put, Jesus tells us: “I am the Light, don’t go into the darkness because that is not where you will find what you are looking for. Search into the light. Follow the  true light.  Follow me.”

Like the sreetlight effect it is so easy for us to agree to following Christ by our words because we think it would be easy and definitely favorable for us. We were like those fishermen Jesus found tending their boats.“As he was walking by the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon who is called Peter, and his brother Andrew, casting a net into the sea.  He said to them, “Come after me, and I will make you fishers of men.”  At once they left their nets and followed him.  He walked along from there and saw two other brothers, James, the son of Zebedee, and his brother John.  They were in a boat, with their father Zebedee, mending their nets.  He called them, and immediately they left their boat and their father and followed him.”

Streetlight effect – they thought Jesus could offer something more than fish to them, a life better than they could imagine – “fishers of men” – what a nice title.  But later on they would realize that following the light of the world – Jesus - would not be easy…. Now this is the challenge of Jesus for them and for us which is different from the streetlight because under that false light you will never find what you are looking for…. Jesus on the other hand, lights your way – a way which might be rough and filled with temptations and difficulties…. But unlike the streetlight that stays put, Jesus will accompany you to the darkest corners of the earth to find whatever you are searching for.  But for that to happen you have to respond to his call no matter how hard it may be… You have to follow his Light even if it takes you to the darkest valleys of your life as you journey through your darkest nights.

The gospel today ends with:

“He went around all of Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the gospel of the kingdom, and curing every disease and illness among the people. His light shone through the darkness.” The apostles he called followed him, all would experience persectutions in doing so, but the Light of Christ would see them through. 

We too will be called to do difficult things- perhaps join the choir,  read in church, or perhaps give your share to help our less privileged Cambodian brothers and sisters in this school. Be sensitive to the call. Do not hide in the darkness or try to find what you are looking for under the streetlight. The answer is already in front of us – it is He we will receive in a few moments in Holy Communion. He is the light of our soul with Him we cannot be lost and will always find what we are looking for…. But always with a price … a sacrifice on our part. 

References

David H. Freedman (2010). Wrong: Why Experts Keep Failing Us. Little, Brown and Company. ISBN 0-316-02378-7.

Freedman, D. ( 2010). Discover Magazine. Why Scientific Studies Are So Often Wrong: The Streetlight Effect.

http://discovermagazine.com/2010/jul-aug/29-why-scientific-studies-often-wrong-streetlight-effect

Yohan, J. (2016)Axis Praxis. The Streetlight Effect.

 https://axispraxis.wordpress.com/2016/03/24/the-streetlight-effect-a-metaphor-for-knowledge-and-ignorance/

Epiphany A - Star light, star bright

A little boy returned from Sunday school with a new perspective on the Christmas story. He had learned all about the Wise Men from the East who brought gifts to the Baby Jesus. He was so excited that he could hardly wait to tell his parents.

As soon as he arrived home, he immediately began, “I learned all about the very First Christmas in Sunday school today! There wasn’t a Santa Claus way back then, so these three skinny guys on camels had to deliver all the toys!”

He further continued, “And Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer with his nose so bright also wasn’t there yet, so they had to have this big spotlight in the sky to find their way around!

Today is the feast of the Epiphany which means “God revealing himself to all” – And the word was made flesh and dwelt among us. Did you know that Christians first celebrated Christmas on this date?  It was only later that it was changed to December 25 because this Pope named Gregory changed the whole calendar into what we know it now. But many Catholics especially of the Eastern rite still celebrate Christmas during this feast. Anyway this feast is also always associated with its leading men – the Magi – the three wise men. But this feast in reality is all about their journey – their journey of faith, their journey to Jesus Christ. And in that journey it was always the light of the Star that guided them until they found what they were looking for. The star pointed the way.

One of the first songs I learned was:

Twinkle twinkle little star, how I wonder what you are.

Up above the world so high  like a diamond in the sky.

This too was first song of the Magi on the journey… they followed the star without really knowing what they would find… it was a leap of faith.  Believing that the star would lead them to something more precious than a diamond… something more glorious than the star itself. The star gave them faith.

One of the first poems I memorized as a child was:

Star light, star bright, First star I see tonight,

I wish I may, I wish I might, Have this wish I wish tonight.

This is the poem of the three wise men as they journeyed.  They had a dream of finding someone very important, someone who would change their life. As they wished upon the first bright star they saw, they hoped, they wished that they may find this someone – the fulfilment of their wish. The star gave them hope.

A song in the movie I could always recall is that one in Pinocchio:

When you wish upon a star makes no difference who you are. Anything your heart desires will come to you.

When finally the star pointed at the manger where the child Jesus lay, the three wise men saw that for this child it makes no difference who you are- all were humbled by the presence of this baby.  They realize now that all who search for Jesus in their hearts will always find Him. And so they kneel before him offering their gift of  myrrh- the myrrh of their humility (this perfume is used for burial and when we die we become dust – humus… humility). Then they offer their gift of frankincense – their frankincense of adoration (incense is until now used for worship, for reverence, for adoration). Finally their gift of gold… the gold of their love (gold the most precious of metals you give to your most loved one).

Twenty centuries have gone-by since that first adoration of the Magi, and this long procession of the our world still continues to make its way to Christ. Through this feast of “The Epiphany of the Lord,” the Church proclaims the manifestation of Jesus to all mankind of all times, with no distinction of race or nation. “The Epiphany of the Lord,” is the feast of faith. It is a feast of our seeking & recognizing Jesus, and coming to him and worshiping him at this Mass with the gold of our love, the myrrh of our humility and the frankincense of our adoration. It is also the feast of God's challenge to each one of us may all one day sing together as the three wise men did (that’s why it’s three times): “O come let us adore him, O come let us adore him, O come let us adore him… Christ the Lord.”

References:

http://albee2012.blogspot.com/2013/11/homily-epiphany-of-lord-year-a_7800.html